How dating coach, one of the things I hit with so often, how little time a guy makes thinking about the image he projects. Images of the project that makes people pay attention to, and treat you exactly how you are going to treat. You are treated with respect? Or, if a doormat?

For example, if you are standing on collapsed, looking down and saying a voice whispered, you are absolutely projecting a serious loss of confidence, and you will be treated that way. Conversely, if you stand straight, shoulders back, looking straight ahead, if you have a sidewalk, people react to this signal, as well. Experiment with it.

There is evidence that the world proves my point. As part of the animal world, we are trained to respond to certain stimuli by instinct. No doubt you have heard about the “fight or flight” instinct. Fight or flight instinct said that faced with certain stimuli, and fear, for example, you have the option to run like hell, or you can stand your ground and fight, what is it that creates fear.

Here is an example of my thinking. If you go down the street, and sitting on a park bench three men in black leather jackets, jeans, tea shirts and black boots, what are you thoughts on the immediate are these people? Bikers. Right. Scary bikers? Depends on your opinion of bikers, but they are bikers. Period. Even if you do not see any motorcycles in any place, is not it? Right.

But what if I say that they actually Accountants five days a week, but the bikers dress up as the weekend. This will change your opinion about them? Yes, it is true. The fact that they decided to behave in such a way that projects an image that they want to project. And some women will react to this image. The image of a lone biker. Rebel without a cause. Most likely, those same women do not respond in kind for accountants! Who will?

Here I am doing is very simple. If you do not like who you are, change. If you do not like the fact that women do not react to you, to change the way you act toward women. But what to do, Mike? ” Well, I will tell you.

What a man you know that there is no problem to get women? Think about it. How do they behave? How do they dress? How to wear your hair, talk, and walk? Are they rebels? They wear leather? They wear elegant clothes and golf shirts?

What kind of woman you want to attract? Where they hang out? Who do they like? They are strong, opinionated, funny guys. They like that the guys bust on them, and not take any shit from them… They are the guys that need them, when they whine.

Look at yourself and decide if you are a man that women want to be with. I do not mean your views. I mean the clothing, hair and attitude. If you do not change themselves. Buy new clothes. Smile less. Appear indifferent. The practice itself in such a way each time to talk to women whether you are in a supermarket, restaurant, school or work. You will be surprised how they react to you.

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