Online Dating Guide for Men. Chapter 7 - Step 6: Learn How To Use The Phone With Success


93% of all communication is done with your voice tone and body language. If you ring up a woman asking for a date and you sound like mickey mouse and are all nervous, you’ve blown it straight away, no questions asked. Again, the idea of using the phone is to get the date, not to have a general chit chat.

Most guys have this habit of speaking for ages on the phone and not getting to the point. Before you ring, think about what you are going to say, how you are going to say it and what you are going to say if she throws a curve ball at you.

Go into the phone call with a plan, think about what you are going to say and you will be fine.
Too many people fear confrontation, just ask for the date and if she says no, she says no, just move on.

If you don’t get a returned call you should probably move on, happy that you didn’t waste another moment with a rude jerk. If, on the other hand you’re the adventurous type, you can try this. Call the person up, but don’t leave messages on their answering machine or voice mail. Wait for the person to answer.

Just so you know, phones these days usually tell people who has called, hungup, when and how many times, so please dont ring 50 times a day, because more then likely they will know you were doing it and it looks a bit stalkerish.
If after you called a few times over a few days and no one picks up, leave a short, funny message about not being able to get a hold of her and she can ring you back.

Online Dating Guide for Men
Chapter 1 - Why Internet Dating?
Chapter 2 - Step 1: Understanding The Law Of Attraction!
Chapter 3 - Step 2: Find 3 Online Dating Sites To Put Your Online Profile On
Chapter 4 - Step 3: How To Write A Killer Online Profile With Samples!
Chapter 5 - Step 4: Learn To Write Effective Email Followups
Chapter 6 - Step 5: Learn How To Use Instant Messaging With Success
Chapter 7 - Step 6: Learn How To Use The Phone With Success
Chapter 8 - Step 7: Meet Up For The First Time And Be Confident!
Chapter 9 - Step 8: Control The Pace Of The Relationship
Chapter 10 - Step 9: Date Multiple Women
Bonus 1: How To Beat Shyness
Bonus 2: How To Walk With Confidence

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