So you’ve got the date but you have no idea where you are going to go on your first date?

The best date in my opinion goes as follows. You ring up the girl, tell her to meet you at your favorite cafe or bar for a quick drink. Chat for an hour or so, call it a night, go home.
That’s what works for me and for every guy I know who is good with dating.

Guys try and impress to hard on first dates and take them to the most expensive
restaurants and buy them fancy dinners. If end up spending more then $20 on a date,
its too much.

I can remember the best date of my life I brought 2 beers and she brought a wine and that was it. We chatted for an hour or so, I ended the night and went home.
Make sure you never let your first dates go for too long, I never let them go over 2 hours and most only last an hour or so. It’s not about how long you spend on the date or how much money you spend, its about the impression you leave on the girl.
If you are funny and confident and the girl has a blast, all you need is an hour.
Yes, I’ve taken girls home after a first date like this, but I don’t recommend it.
Like I said in the previous chapter, body language and voice tone are so important when dating. You want to speak with confidence, walk with confidence and BE confident.

Here are a few tips I use.

- Do everything slowly
What I mean by that is don’t look like your anicked or in a rush. Make every movement
deliberate and cool.

- Walk slowly and upright
When you’re walking, always walk with your shoulders back and slowly. Stand upright with good posture and stick your chest out and look around like you own the place.

- When sitting, lean back in your chair
Don’t lean right forward and smother the girl, give her space, lean right back and look like you’re too comfortable.

- Maintain eye contact and never mumble
Always look at her in the eyes when you’re talking and never mumble or cover your mouth when you speak.

Here are more date ideas if you must do something other then a quick drink.

Take a drive down to the beach and walk and talk. It’s a cheap date and a good way to find out about the other person.

Ring up your local pool hall, find out when its the quietest and go have a game of pool
together.

Go to mini golf. The beauty of mini golf is there will be a lot of other couples around
as well and families, so it makes for a comfortable setting.

Take your date to a concert. If you’ve been friends with this person for a while, you’ll
know what he or she likes and you can work on that. If you don’t know the person well,
Take your date on a picnic by the water. Make sure there are plenty of rest rooms and
shelter around just in case.

Go to the casino. This is not everyone’s cup of tea, but what could be more exciting then
winning big. They will never forget it.

Go go-karting. This is a great way to find out if your date will try just about anything
once.

Take your date golfing. Find a local golf course that caters to beginners and do only 9
holes.

Go to the golf driving range. This is probably a better idea then golfing, it’s
cheaper, shorter in time and more fun.

Have your palms read. Most women find this sort of thing very interesting.

Take a limo ride around the city. To find the best deals, use the Internet to find local
companies with websites.

Go to a roof top or revolving restaurant. Eating outdoors always makes things more
memorable, just remember to make a booking first.

Go to a day spa together and get a massage. Go on the Internet to find the best deals.

Go hot air balooning. Probably not the ideal first date as it’s a little expensive and hot
air balooning is done very early in the morning.

Go on a lunch date. Perfect idea if you work together, just make sure your date knows it’s
a date and not a friendly outing.

Go to a local museum. The most popular types of museums are the interactive types, with
displays, not things like art galleries.

If your date is the sporting type, take her to a local sporting event. You could even go
to a college game.

If you know how to ride a motorbike, take your date for a ride somewhere scenic or at nightime in the city.

Go to the batting cages. Not everyone’s idea of a great date, but you’ll soon find out if
your date is easy going or high matainence.

Frisbee golf is another date idea that will certainly tell you what type of person you
are dating. If you are not sure what frisbee golf is, go to google.com and look it up,
it’s a lot of fun.

Go to your local jazz club and relax. Everyone loves jazz.

Go to the zoo. Most zoo’s have nigh time exhibits or exhibits out of the norm for
people to see.

Go to the local fair. Every year we have a local fair where I live that has show bags,
rides etc.

Getting up early and going to the flea markets is a very cheap and fun date. If you
are not big on sitting down and talking, this is the date for you.

Take your date for dinner on the boardwalk. Very romantic!

Online Dating Guide for Men
Chapter 1 - Why Internet Dating?
Chapter 2 - Step 1: Understanding The Law Of Attraction!
Chapter 3 - Step 2: Find 3 Online Dating Sites To Put Your Online Profile On
Chapter 4 - Step 3: How To Write A Killer Online Profile With Samples!
Chapter 5 - Step 4: Learn To Write Effective Email Followups
Chapter 6 - Step 5: Learn How To Use Instant Messaging With Success
Chapter 7 - Step 6: Learn How To Use The Phone With Success
Chapter 8 - Step 7: Meet Up For The First Time And Be Confident!
Chapter 9 - Step 8: Control The Pace Of The Relationship
Chapter 10 - Step 9: Date Multiple Women
Bonus 1: How To Beat Shyness
Bonus 2: How To Walk With Confidence