Girls have a tendency to be their own worst enemy when it comes to killing attraction. If a girl had a really great time with you, she will ring you constantly, but it’s your job as the man to control the relationship.

You don’t have to pick up the phone everytime he rings you know. Talking to each other constantly will ruin the attraction when you first start dating.

Here is what I do after a good date.

I ring her the next day, tell her I had a great, hope she did too, make some sort of funny comment, and go, “well, I gotta go, I’m pretty busy, so have fun, bye”.

As you noticed, I didn’t ask for a second date straight off the bat. I want her wondering about me for a while, building anticipation. I don’t want to come across as needy and desperate. Don’t text her, don’t email her, don’t talk to her on msn, icq and don’t ring her for a few days, then out of the blue, ask her for a second date.

If she rings you, you can pick up and go I’m kinda busy right now, and can’t talk, so why don’t we meet up, Tuesday next week at this place. She basically did the asking out for you by ringing back and you don’t come off as needy and desperate because you make it look like it was her idea!

Never see a girl more then 2 times a week when you are first dating for the first few months and you should be dating other women.

Online Dating Guide for Men
Chapter 1 - Why Internet Dating?
Chapter 2 - Step 1: Understanding The Law Of Attraction!
Chapter 3 - Step 2: Find 3 Online Dating Sites To Put Your Online Profile On
Chapter 4 - Step 3: How To Write A Killer Online Profile With Samples!
Chapter 5 - Step 4: Learn To Write Effective Email Followups
Chapter 6 - Step 5: Learn How To Use Instant Messaging With Success
Chapter 7 - Step 6: Learn How To Use The Phone With Success
Chapter 8 - Step 7: Meet Up For The First Time And Be Confident!
Chapter 9 - Step 8: Control The Pace Of The Relationship
Chapter 10 - Step 9: Date Multiple Women
Bonus 1: How To Beat Shyness
Bonus 2: How To Walk With Confidence